Initially, everything was actually best with our team. I thought you had been the man I had been looking forward to forever and I wondered everything I’d completed to get thus lucky having located you. It appeared like absolutely nothing could prevent you, but I found myself wrong. Once you noticed I wasn’t great which I got defects like every single other person, you ran just like the correct coward you happen to be. To start with, it stung like and made me feel vulnerable, but we unwrapped my vision and discovered the truth:
I am better off
without you around.

1. 
   Fun reality: I am not perfect — nobody is.
   
   You acted so astonished that I was prepared to end up being susceptible along with you and demonstrate a part of me which is less than perfect, but i truly don’t provide a damn. Needs somebody who encourage me personally in all of my personal glory, bad and good. I am not likely to in a sugar my personal existence or work fake merely to allow you to be seduced by me much harder. I am sorry I happened to be actual and never the caricature of a woman you desired us to be.
2. 
   You’re delusional to believe that love is simple.
   
   Actual relationships and love requires work and it seems that that really work was a lot to manage for an idle jerk as you. You desired the whole world handed for you on a silver plate, thus I’m sorry which you did not can go down that simple rainbow brick street with me. I would personally have worked at things equally tough any time you’d already been happy to grow a couple of golf balls and rev up on the dish.
3. 
   We would not remain hushed as soon as you addressed me personally like crap.
   
   You stated something off-color for me and you’re damned correct we piped right up about any of it. We need a lot more than to place my personal feelings to the side merely to suit your enormous ego. Rather than handling the problem like a grown ass man, you informed me you could potentiallyn’t handle the terrible and ignored myself alternatively. Exactly how mature.
4. 
   A proper guy knows that relationships grab work and recognition.
   
   I want to phone you a genuine man, but a proper guy doesn’t manage and cover from struggle as it pertains up. Just the right guy for me is likely to be a person that really loves all areas of me and also be prepared to sit down and work on what disappointed all of us like grownups. Everything I undoubtedly learned is you’re maybe not a real guy anyway — you are only an immature little boy concealing in a man’s body.
5. 
   I did not like specific things in regards to you, although great outweighed the poor.
   
   You should not act like you are therefore great yourself. I’m going to be the initial someone to let you know that there were things you did and mentioned that had been irritating AF and unappealing, as well. The difference is that we saw nutrients in you as well that we chose to allow outweigh the weaknesses. Possibly should you have checked the extended a number of reasons at precisely why I’m remarkable rather than focusing on the drawbacks, you would beginning to possess some better luck crazy rather than moaning that all your exes are insane. Maybe you have regarded that you’re the psychopath since you operate from your own relationship issues? Just a thought.
6. 
   You tossed something which could have been remarkable away on a whim.
   
   You thrown myself out the door like daily outdated newsprint and it also genuinely made my personal jaw smack the flooring once you dismissed me personally the manner in which you did. After every thing we’d been through, after all those remarkable thoughts we made, you put it away since you’re a man-child just who are unable to handle a grown up connection. We waste you.
7. 
   I am sorry I couldn’t become doormat you had been searching for.
   
   I am genuinely sorry that you are currently wanting us to bend down and put with your own crap, but We pride myself on being that girl who doesn’t take crap from anybody. To tell the truth, i’m genuinely sorry for woman who spend her existence along with you, because she’d must be spineless in order to survive a lifetime to you causing all of the avoidance towards actual really love battles.
8. 
   There is even more best that you me than my personal flaws — too terrible you may never know.
   
   The way situations transpired with us ended up being absolutely to find the best, even in the event I didn’t find it during the time. Looking right back at whom I found myself to you to exactly who I was after you merely tends to make myself laugh a lot more. You really skipped down beside me in addition to more that In my opinion about it, more we realize how remarkable i will be despite your own attempt at appearing me personally otherwise. Yes,
   I have defects
   , but I’m pretty fabulous despite all of them. As well poor you’ll never understand, because you cowardly walked away within very first sign of a struggle.